Here is a fantastic 13-minute TEDx Talk by Barry Posner, co-author (with James Kouzes) of the book, The Leadership Challenge, and Professor of Leadership at the Leavey School of Business at Santa Clara University.
Below are excerpts from his excellent speech.
There are two truths about leadership: You make a difference and you can’t do it alone.
Leadership does not have to be complex. It can be simple: You make a difference and you can’t do it alone.
(1) You make a difference – Believe in yourself, understand who you are and what you’re about and what you care about. You make a difference and it’s easier when you know who you are.
The first person who has to follow you is you! The first person who must believe in you is you. The first voice of self-doubt that you must address is that little voice inside yourself. If you don’t believe in yourself and if you are not willing to follow yourself then you will have a hard time getting someone else to be willing to follow you.
(2) You can’t do it alone – “Being with you, working with you [and] being in this organization will make me better than it would be if I were someplace else.”
The essence of leadership is that a leader has followers. You cannot be a leader without a follower.
“It’s hard to imagine that you can be a leader without a follower. . . . If you find yourself walking forward and you turn around and there’s nobody there, then . . . you’re just out for a walk.” -Barry Posner
“Leadership is a relationship. It’s a relationship between those who would lead and those who would choose to follow.”
Leaders need to turn their followers into leaders. “If you’re going to be a leader, you have to be a leader that makes it possible for other people to lead.”
“Leadership’s not a solo act. It’s not a monologue. It’s a dialogue. It’s a conversation.”
“It’s about wanting to be in a relationship in which people have our best interests at heart and they think that we’re great and those are the people we wanna be with and we want to work with, and we want to do great things with.”
“The research is quite clear about this: If you ask the question, “Why do some managers get ahead in an organization and some don’t?” It all has to do with the quality of the relationships with the people that they have in an organization.” -Barry Posner
“You make a difference and you can’t do it alone. I make a difference, but I can’t do it alone.” -Barry Posner
Written By: Steve Nguyen, Ph.D.
Leadership & Talent Development Consultant
TEDxTalks University of Nevada – I make a difference, but I can’t do it alone